Lucky to be in the land, we’re free from enemy worries….I said, “God, be gracious! Put me together again— I have been torn to pieces.”…My enemies are wishing the worst for me….If someone comes to see me, he mouths empty platitudes, All the while gathering gossip about me to entertain the street-corner crowd….These “friends” who hate me whisper slanders all over town. They form committees to plan misery for me….The rumor goes out….Even my best friend, the one I always told everything —he ate meals at my house all the time!— has bitten my hand….God, give grace, get me up on my feet. I’ll show them a thing or two….Meanwhile, I’m sure you’re on my side— no victory shouts yet from the enemy camp….You know me inside and out, you hold me together, you never fail to stand me tall in your presence so I can look you in the eye….Blessed is God! (Psalm 41:2-13) (MSG)
Life is full of surprises, from birth one seeks to have good friends. People to trust, people to love, people to share with, people to laugh with, people to cry with, but evil always corrupts good friendships. Most of us have been scarred from childhood. I recall my first childhood friend, (David Edmond) one I dream would last forever. We meet in Head Start, were brushing our teeth together and after that we did everything together. From Head Start through Middle School we were like two peas in a pod. Then in our Junior year of High School, Satan found his vise, David accused me of having sex with his girlfriend. A love between friends shattered, memories lost, plans destroyed, no hope to reunite.
Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it. So I find this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me. (Romans 7:20-21) (NIV)
I had never been with David’s girlfriend nor had it ever cross my mine. The hurt of your friendship being betrayed, the trust, and the shared thoughts gone to waste. The very thing that I never thought of doing, because of the hurt (the sin) I did.
There are “friends” who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother. (Proverbs 18:24) (NLT)
After that I never really looked for anyone to be my friend, but we all lone to have a true friend. Consequently, even without looking you come across people who try to befriend you. Every once in a while I would except the friendship, and betrayal came along. I have always
made it a point if I am a friend, I am a friend, if I am not, I am not. Because, I believe the true friends sticks closer than a brother. However, so many don’t understand true friendship, because of selfishness, pride, jealousy, envy, spite, etc…..
But, should Christians be different? Man, when I became a Christian I hoped so, but…..Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends. (John 15:13) (NKJV) What happen to this part of Christianity? Did we stop following Jesus Christ’s teachings? Did I error in thinking that love, friendships and relationships should be found in the Church?
Because this is what I found in the Church; Many will entreat the favor of a liberal man, and every man is a friend to him who gives gifts. (Proverbs 19:6) (AMP) and Wealth addeth many friends; But the poor is separated from his friend. (Proverbs 19:4) (ASV) I am not even talking about material things. Stop giving attention to the man, get broken in your spirit, hurt from church groupies gossiping, speak out on the truth. You will quickly find out that the friend you thought you had forgot; And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. (1 Corinthians 13:13) (NKJV)
If you confess to be a Christian, study to be a friend.
If you confess to be a Christian and you are in love with the church, cheat on it and love people.
If you confess to be a Christian make a friend, keep a friend, love a friend, be a friend.
If you confess to be a Christian don’t be a hypocrite at the funeral!
Life is short and Christ is on His way!
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